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Embracing Sacred Union: A Journey of Love, Support, and Fulfillment

Embracing Sacred Union, Yesterday I cried and my husband smiled.

My husband isn’t someone who buys lavish gifts or remembers special occasions but to be honest that doesn’t bother me that much because I squirm anytime there are expectations around a holiday. I prefer to just celebrate ordinary days, in ordinary ways. But he did go out and buy a huge cake for my birthday and for our 8 yr old daughter’s birthday.

He seems to just get that superfluous gifts and celebrations don’t matter that much to me.

And he has the ability to see when something means the world to me and show up and contribute in the biggest possible way, THERE.

Here’s an example and why I cried.

When we moved to Hungary, I started going to a horse ranch because I love horses. I started taking horseback riding lessons but also learning how to take care of horses.

It was nourishing me in such a deep way and I started to feel a spiritual connection to the Equine kingdom. I felt that the Equine kingdom was giving me a big gift and that an even bigger gift was coming.

I contacted my animal communicator and I asked her if there was a horse that was mine. The horse Goddess came and said yes, that I would meet my horse soon.

Now mind you my hubby is NOT a woo woo guy. He’s a very practical on the ground guy and that’s what I love about him because he grounds me when I go flying in the realms.

But the important thing is that even though he’s not a woo woo guy, he doesn’t discount my very woo woo and completely illogical experiences.

Embracing Sacred Union: A Husband’s Dedication to Fulfilling My Passion for Horses

I started on my horse owner journey and my husband called on horses for me, made horse appointments for me to meet various horses and drove me across the country multiple times to meet several horses.

When we found my special horse, he negotiated with the seller for me.

When she came home and I was learning to train her and fell off MORE than once, he drove me to the hospital (I can’t imagine how hoard that must have been for him) but he never ONCE told me to quit.

The truth is, I’ve never in my life had love like this. And I don’t write too much about myself personally because believe it or not I am kind of an introvert. But today I wanted to share with you what I consider is my biggest success: Going from attracting abusive men like my father to attracting and connecting with healthy men – until eventually I met my husband.

I broke a generational cycle.

I am leaving a legacy.

My daughter is growing up as the daughter of parents in a Sacred Union Marriage.

He never once told me to sell my horse. He completely got how much it meant to me. In fact when I asked him if he wants me to quit he said, “I would feel so sad if you quit because it makes you so happy.”

Also: my husband is not an animal person. LOL

I LOVE animals and am learning to use my mediumship skills to communicate with them.

But when I was injured, he helped me take care of THIS animal.

He found me a trainer. He makes plans with him 3 times a week for me because I don’t speak Hungarian. He comes with me to every training and he watches me like a hawk to make sure I’m safe.

In other words, he made my dream possible for me, protected me, provided for me, in the realm that makes the biggest difference for me.

He fully supported me in something that meant the world to me.

Without him, I wouldn’t be here, because we live in Hungary now. I wouldn’t have been able to negotiate a horse purchase, find a trainer, do lessons, and the whole thing, without him.

I also wouldn’t have been able to keep going if he didn’t show up with encouragement (even though he admitted he was afraid for me) and get me a trainer and take care of my horse for me when I couldn’t walk.

He also ordered a hand made brand new saddle for me and coordinated with the craftsman his comings and goings to measure my horse as well as the payments.

NO ONE has loved me this much before.

NO ONE has SEEN me this deeply before, even though he’s not WOO WOO and I am the definition of WOO WOO LOL.

NO one has shown me this much love, tenderness, honor and respect and care.

NO one has made me feel this special before. Sacred Union Sacred Union

So that’s why I cried in the car yesterday, on our way to the barn where I board my horse.

I was thanking him from the bottom of my heart.

But he didn’t look at it as a big deal, LOL.

He was a little surprised I got so emotional.

But then I appreciated it the way men understand: I told him WHAT it provided for me.

I said, maybe it doesn’t seem like a lot, but because you helped me I got to continue to grow in my experience of the purse magic of life. Sacred Union

I got to participate in the miracle of connecting deeply in heart and in trust with another species.

I got to fulfill my childhood dream of having my own horse. Sacred Union

I got to experience trusting a horse and having a horse trust me and how incredibly precious that is.

I got to deepen my animal communication skills (now remember this is outside the realm of his reality, LOL) and now I am connected to my horse in a way I could only dream about before.

And because o this journey, I akso got to grow as a spiritual being and as a leader.

He still didn’t say much but when we got home, he wanted to fix my bike and do work around the house. He wanted to contribute MORE.

So even though men’s love is ACTIVE and women’s love is PROFESSIVE, he still heard my words, they fueled him with appreciation and my receptivity had him wanting to provide even more.

THIS is the miracle of sacred partnership. This is the miracle of a healthy masculine man partnered with a feminine woman. This is the miracle of understanding the energetics of sacred union.

I just wanted to share this with you.

It’s deeply personal, because I came from NOT that. But that’s another post.

Love, Emilia

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