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How to Date SAFE Men so Your Heart isn’t at Risk Again

Dating doesn’t mean you have to put your heart at risk again

There is a risk, but it can be greatly minimized with men’s help and your own empowered feminine discernment put into practice.

What if dating for marriage simply means you’re WILLING to practice being vulnerable with SAFE men?


Healthy masculine men protect women, children and the elderly. That makes them SAFE.

The feminine superpower for attracting SAFE masculine men, is receptivity. A man being masculine is the primary criteria to filter for first, when dating. I spell out exactly how FREE here

If receptivity attracts masculinity, then what attracts a HEALTHY, safe masculinity?

What attracts healthy safe masculinity is healthy safe femininity.

Healthy safe masculinity is otherwise referred to as empowered masculine, divine masculine, sacred masculine.

Healthy, empowered femininity is receptivity with BOUNDARIES.

That’s why I talk about being vulnerable but only with SAFE men.

So what’s receptivity, really? Here are all the nuances of receive I could find so we can really feel into what this means.

  1. to get or be given
  2. to welcome
  3. to act as a receptacle or container for
  4. to permit to enter
  5. to accept
  6. to experience
  7. to suffer the hurt or injury of

And what stood out to me as polar opposites were the words “welcome” and “suffer.”

Receptivity is hard for most modern women because it requires vulnerability.

It requires you to open your space to something that you can’t seemingly control or predict. Or at least at first glance, it seems and feels that way.

But what if I told you that it’s not? It’s not, because you don’t have to accept, welcome, receive or experience anything that’s uncomfortable for you.

And what’s really cool is that a healthy masculine man will be your partner in that, if you let them = are willing to receive this from him.

In other words, he will defend and uphold your boundaries and “be on your side” if you let him.

And this is a GAME CHANGER when it comes to dating safely; both physically and emotionally. THIS is how you minimize the risk.

Next, I delved into the meaning of the word vulnerable. Here’s what I found:

  1. openness or susceptibility to attack or harm
  2. willingness to allow one’s weaknesses to be seen or known
  3. willingness to risk being emotionally hurt
  4. easily hurt or harmed physically, mentally, or emotionally

And what stood out for me were the words, ”willingness” and “risk.”

Vulnerability requires courage. So let’s explore courage:

  1. The state or quality of mind or spirit that enables one to face danger or fear with self-possession, confidence, and resolution; bravery.
  2. the ability to do something that you know is difficult or dangerous
  3. mental or moral strength to venture, persevere, and withstand danger, fear, or difficulty

And what stood out to me was the word “strength.”

So, I looked into strength and I found:

  1. the quality or capacity for exertion or endurance
  2. the ability to resist being moved or broken
  3. the quality that allows someone to deal with problems in a determined and effective way
  4. power to resist force
  5. degree of potency of effect or of concentration, intensity; vigor of expression

What stood out to me was “the power to resist force.”

I think many women think being receptive, feminine and vulnerable means to act as a receptacle or container for dangerous and difficult experiences with men with the capacity for endurance and hopefully with the power to resist their force.

YUK. And yes it IS. But only if you date UNHEALTHY masculine men.

But filtering those out is the second criteria. You filter them out with my FREE PDF “The10 Signs of a Healthy Man,” using your empowered feminine energy. You can get it FREE here:

And what’s really cool is that a healthy masculine man will be your partner, helper, supporter and friend in removing dangerous and difficult men from your sphere.

HEALTHY men will resist unhealthy men’s force FOR you, so you don’t ever have to.

The answer to toxic masculinity is healthy masculinity, not feminism.

And healthy men will partner with you and protect you against another very powerful force; secular society’s deprecation of the sacred in men and women and the sacred union that’s possible for them.

This was called the Holy of Holies in some religious text. That tantric sacred bond between man and woman is the foundation of a healthy family and a healthy society.

If you’re a single woman currently dating and you keep attracting the wrong men but you’re ready for your soulmate and you know you need some healing from heartbreak, smart dating and powerful partnering tools to get you to healthy reciprocal love, then send me a DM and inquire about my 90 day 1-1 intensive.

In that intensive, you get help AND hand-holding implementing my 3-step smart filtering strategy that will have you dating HEALTHY, SAFE masculine men and immediately turn the cycle of attracting the wrong men around. You can get the strategy FREE here

We will work on leaning into receptivity with SAFE men and being confident and courageous in the dating world, without opening yourself up to danger or difficulty.

We accomplish this with a combination of three deep emotional healings which open your heart and reconnect you with your life force and with your inner divine creativity, joy, and exploration.

Given that the wrong marriage can set you back years in terms of emotional, psychological and financial health and cost tens and hundreds of thousands of dollars in court and attorney fees in the case of divorce, this ONE investment is priceless and irreplaceable.

If this resonates with your heart and you decide to send me a DM, we will have a quick chat over email to see if my 90 day 1-1 intensive is right for you. If so, we can get started the very same day!

Love, Emilia

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