I often see spiritual women seeking LOVE, subconsciously use your COMMENDABLE spiritual power to block yourself.
In my world this shows up all the time when it comes to powerhouse feminine women attracting their healthy masculine man who leads.
You say, “I am very different, I am a witch, I am too sensitive, I am too spiritual, I am too complicated, I am a lot to handle, I need unusual things because my astrology chart is ABC, my human design is XYZ, my karma is DEF.”
OK.
In the words fo Byron Katie, is it true?
Can you be absolutely certain that it’s true?
If no then, why are you creating that with your words rather than creating spiritual union with your words?
Are you deflecting energy?
What are you deflecting?
You are deflecting the responsibility that the universe is mirroring back to you when it comes to achieving/manifesting/magnetising the result you are desiring with MEN.
Because you’re actually holding an energy of LACK.
Why?
Because you’re not fully in your power in this area – relationships with men and the masculine.
You’re settling. Sacrificing. Playing Small. And then also playing “too big,” “too independent,” “too ABC” to have real sacred union.
Oh, those pesky egos of ours.
It’s Ok. It’s lifetimes, lineages, it’s OOOLD. But we’re here to TRANSMUTE just that. It’s TIME.
It’s time for sacred partnership love – divine union between sacred divine feminine and sacred divine masculine IN human bodies in YOUR relationship, YES QUEEN, YES!
You’re downplaying your sovereign creative power in THIS area although you might have it totally blowing up millions for you in your biz, health, wherever else.
All manifestation is a combination of masculine and feminine energy; surrender and action, faith and practicality, being and doing.
What’s happening when you say, “I am a witch and too nuanced and multilayered for any dating approaches to be effective for me,” is you’re using your spiritual gifts to handicap yourself.
Rather than using them powerfully as a reason why something WOULD work. For example, “I am a witch, I can make anything work. I can manifest anything I want. If dating works for others, it can work for me.”
You’re not using your spiritual gifts in SERVICE of your dreams but in service of your perceived limitations.
This is some black magic you’re doing on yourself with your own power.
On the other hand, when you’re busy busy taking action towards something like chatting with a ton of men online or offline, giving your energy to meeting more and more men (any men, not intentionally selecting men), being ON and doing and doing, you’re not only draining your energy but also crowding out the magic of the Universe by overdoing.
You’re hustling and efforting and not leaving enough space and SURRENDER energy for the Universe to deliver your desired manifestation.
Yes, this applies to LOVE! YES!
Use your spiritual gifts to affirm, “I can receive, I am safe and protected, I am willing to take aligned actions in service of my dreams, I am willing to rest when rest is needed and take action when action is needed in service of manifesting my dreams. I am worthy of true love and devotion and I have an open heart that can receive that.”
And if you need help because you know you’ve got subconscious blocks to love even though you’re a total powerhouse in other areas, then this is what I do in my 6 month 1-1 intensive for feminine leaders who want to manifest powerful partnership with the man of their dreams.
It’s a private, 1-1 container where I work with you very closely on your feminine empowerment with men by understanding men and the masculine and embodying your full feminine sovereign power in relationship with them.
I help you date to select high quality masculine men, I help you discern and heal anything that might be in your way of creating that with a combination of years of experience, reiki, my spiritual gifts.
And finally I help you set up the foundation of a long-lasting and fulfilling soulmate love in your life.
My clients meet their match within 3-6 months of following my guidance and generally get engaged to their DREAM man in apx 12 months and married/living together within apx 24 months.
If this sounds like a fit for you, then I invite you to send me an email at emilia@emilianagy.com and ask about working together. We will have a quick chat over messenger to feel into if we’re a fit and if so, we can get started next week.
Love, Emilia