I thought I was too old for Love but it Didn’t Stop me

In the process of looking for love, I sometimes have women hesitantly share that they think they are “too old” or “too rough around the edges” or “too independent” for real sacred soulmate love to happen for them.

I honestly personally thought I was too fat for true love because that’s what my father told me when I was 16.

I also thought I was too old at 33 and I hear this often from women in their 30s – which of course leaves women in their 50s and 60s + aghast.

Whatever your “too fill-in-the-blank” is, pls try on the concept that it’s actually just an idea, a theory or a hypothesis. It’s an assumption. It’s a premise upon which you operate (for now).

Whatever your version of what’s “wrong” with you that makes you unlovable, know that over the years I have heard/sensed/intuited with clients and students a vast and varied number of them.

And I have also seen that in every circumstance, that hypothesis only becomes reality if you actually commit to proving that it’s true.

Another way of saying that is, it only affects you if you neglect to decide to prove it UNTRUE. LOL

It only remains with you if you don’t release it.

Many women who struggled with dating – in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s and 70s, still found love.

Many found it online. And you can too.

Now, how do you release those pesky hypotheses??

Well first let’s think about what would happen if that wasn’t true.

You might find love and then things would CHANGE!

You might decide to be vulnerable!

You might decide to let someone in your space.

You might decide to (fill in the blank of whatever your brain is afraid of that it thinks will change and might be unsafe if you have intimacy).

So just be gentle with yourself.

Cognitively, you can decide to examine it AS a hypothesis and not as a truth.

You can look at this idea and notice that it doesn’t walk around in your head waving its freak flag saying, “Hey, look at me! I am a disempowering thought and until you change me or release me you will think I am the truth!”

No, it doesn’t walk around your brain saying that.

It probably says something like, “This is what’s true about you. This is set in stone. This is reality for you.”

And it may not even say that. It might be like a brick in a brick wall or a pretty piece of tile in a beautifully tiled floor, just camouflaged in the background. Or it’s been there for so long that we just don’t notice it at all.

These are the cognitive ways to approach it and the illumination of its illogicalness might be enough to cause you to spontaneously release it.

But…it might not go that easily.

The same way that these thoughts/ideas/beliefs and assumptions masquerade as “truth” isn’t logical, releasing them ALSO isn’t logical.

So for that reason, I want to share with you the process we use to release in my coaching programs that really WORKS.

And that is Sedona Method (which I am certified in) and you can find it on YouTube right now and go use it.

I am gonna repeat that: The same way that these thoughts/ideas/beliefs and assumptions masquerade as “truth” isn’t logical, releasing them ALSO isn’t logical.

This is also the reason why you may have done tons of work such as therapy and personal growth seminars, and still these things are there because they are not logical hence they will not GO logically.

Sedona method craftily gets around the logical mind.

It’s so simple and effective that it works even if you don’t do it correctly.

Sedona Method basically exists on the premise that what we resist persists and what we release finds peace.

The idea is that when you try to “fix” something or “change” it, that mere effort produces resistance because you want the thing to be gone.

The wanting it to be gone energy creates resistance to the thing you’re wanting gone.

And so it remains due to the emotional charge associated with it.

After years of therapy, personal growth work, shamanic journeys and quantum healing, I haven’t found anything simpler or quicker or more effective for releasing blocks, beliefs, fears or ideas than Sedona Method.

Here are some quotes to illuminate what women say about releasing with Sedona Method:

“This is insanely effective.”

“I feel like I have wings opening up behind and above me. I feel so free!”

“I can feel the charge going out of these concepts for me. These are mental hang-ups and constructs that have very little to do with reality. They have so little true validity.”

“I have space and peace in the back of my heart, I had physical pain in those areas that’s gone, I feel a lot of release of tension. I want to move, I want to do some jumping jacks, let it reset. The butterfly that was in a jar in my heart is flying freely collecting nectar from flowers.”

“There is no charge – I feel so happy about it!!!!”

So my point is – whatever reason you have that feels true for you that tells you over and over why you’re not worthy of love – you CAN release it.

Releasing these ideas creates so much space for miracles like soulmate love.

It creates space for many more miracles but the miracle that is my mission is sacred peaceful soulmate love because that kind of love heals us and heals our communities, our children and the world.

If you’d like my help in removing your blocks to true love as well as expert help in dating and partnering powerfully with a high quality empowered man, send me a PM and ask about my 1-1 90 day intensive.

In that program we work together 1-1 to release anything that’s keeping you from success in love – which often translates to success in other areas of life including money, career and health.

My clients attract hot healthy love in an average of 10 dates and in at a rate of 1-2 dates per week. This really means that if finding love is on your radar for 2023, you can totally do it.