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One Important Note on Polarity Teachings For the Multipassionate Soul-Led Feminine Leaders

Recently I made a blog about the nuances of polarity teachings and a woman commented that there is only one polarity teaching. That if I was going to distort the polarity teachings she might as well teach her own version of polarity.

Another woman told me to get a clue and blocked me lol.

But I know what I teach is needed for multi-passionate, soul-led feminine women who are leaders, healers, coaches, creatrixes and YES want to also be moms and wives in a fulfilling, lasting union with a masculine man.

YES polarity teachings are a PART of a healthy relationship.

Not the whole thing.

You do need to HONOR polarity in order to create a long term fulfilling balance in your relationship with a masculine man, if you’re a feminine woman, because like I always say – nothing will work if he’s not actually a masculine man.

That’s why all of the dating I teach and all of the relationship tools I teach are engineered back from that ONE concept – how to date for a MASCULINE man and then how to know if he’s healthy and ready for a relationship. This gives you the foundation for sacred union.

I can’t tell you how many problems this ONE thing solves. I see countless posts online from women suffering from choosing a man who isn’t masculine, isn’t healthy and isn’t ready for a relationship.

Over and over and over, this is the main problem I see. She didn’t pick a healthy masculine man. And she didn’t pick a healthy masculine man, that also wanted a partner.

Once you know what to look for, it’s actually pretty easy to tell. I teach you how to filter for these men in my “How to Pick the Right Guy checklist” you can get for FREE here

One reader seemed to think that as long as a man is masculine, he’s also healthy. But that is not my experience.

Just because a man is masculine doesn’t mean he’s in his healthy and empowered masculine energy and just because he IS in his empowered masculine energy also doesn’t mean that he’s ready for a committed relationship that leads to a life partnership.

You need to sort for men who have all 3: masculine, healthy, ready. I teach you exactly how in my free guide, “How to Pick the RIGHT guy checklist you can get at

And there are MANY men who are healthy, masculine and looking for a partner! And many men who are not. That’s why you NEED to know the difference!

So for a hot healthy and fulfilling relationship, you need polarity, yes.

Polarity allows for the feminine and masculine instincts to work in harmony. But what about human spirit?

A sacred union is created when yes, our mating instincts are honored and aligned, but we humans are not just instincts.

We also have human spirit – the part of us that is creating, that sees the world through the lens of choice and lives in a world of abundance, partnership, collaboration, fulfillment and most important for feminine leaders – CONTRIBUTION.

If you have needs outside of the home like a life purpose or mission that has to do with leadership, teaching and serving humanity, can you see how focusing solely on the polarity in your relationship isn’t going to create that?

Needs that have to do with the self-actualization of your talents, gifts, and life purpose, can’t be met by polarity.


Spiritual Partnership. Sacred Union. Sacred Marriage. Holy Union. Divine Union. Holy Matrimony.

There are many names for this, because it EXISTS within humanity as the spiritual blueprint for LOVE.

I see absolutely NO ONE talk about this absolutely CRUCIAL aspect of partnering for feminine people who have a mission, who are leaders, visionaries, mystics and YES want to be wives and mothers too.

It seems as if it’s assumed that to have a successful partnership that lasts and is HOT and fulfilling, all you need is polarity so you can honor male and female instinct.

And I am saying YES, you certainly need to honor our biological beings, but what about our spiritual beings?

Enter Sacred Partnership LOVE.

Sacred Partnership is a partnership where the biological beings and their instincts ARE honored but the focus isn’t solely on the instincts.

In other words, we honor the instincts of the biological beings so that there is a FOUNDATION for SACRED UNION in HUMAN BODIES.

The union of divine feminine and divine masculine.

The union of human spirit energy as it’s expressed through a human female and a human male.

Our spiritual energy is moving THROUGH the glorious vessel of a human body, which has a biochemical component.

On this plane, Souls CHOOSE a vessel which will allow them to EMBODY or INCARNATE in the physical, their desired spiritual experience.

So in most cases, if you’re a man, your soul WANTS you to incarnate and experience the polarity of divine masculine and if you’re a woman, your soul wants you to incarnate and experience and EMBODY the polarity of the divine feminine.

I know it probably sounds crazy when I tell you I can teach you how to date, prepare and partner for a sacred union, but YES I can! This is exactly what I do in my 90 day intensive and if you’d like help creating this in your life, I invite you to send me a DM and say hi and ask me about it.

I will respond with a few questions to see if it’s a fit and if so we can chat face-face and get started right away.

My clients meet their DREAM man in an average of 3 months at a rate of 1-2 VETTED dates a week. You can too!

Love, Emilia

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