Dating the way most women date is exhausting. And even more so for introverts, empaths and sensitives. But there is a WAY it can be easy, nourishing, relaxing, fun and even over too soon LOL! I am going to spill it here….
Here is the BIIIIIG secret: Use the online dating platforms for INTRODUCTIONS!
Don’t use them for connecting and building relationships. You will drain your life force and end up resentful and pissed off at the world.
PUHLEASEEE let me share with you how to do dating so it’s nurturing, fun, and tremendously increases the chances of you attracting your divine masculine man, much, much faster.
How do I know this? Mmm because I did it. I met my divine masculine man online 14 yrs ago and I’ve helped 100s of feminine women do the same in the last 10 yrs.
My clients meet their match in as few as 2-5 dates when dating in this manner but in an average of about 10 dates over 3 months. That is about 1-2 dates per week.
That’s not crazy, right? I imagine if you really wanted love you’ve already been on more than 10 dates. Many women I talk to have been on 20, 50 or more dates.
But unfortunately they did not know how to select the man for what is the most important thing and so they met men willy nilly.
The willy nilly using of online dating platforms led to willy nilly men.
NO feminine woman likes a willy nilly man, right?
What are willy nilly men like?
Going through an “organic” divorce….LOL
Work at the dispensary so they can advocate for daily marijuana use…
You get the nilly of this willy, right?
I have a story about this…
I’m sitting here at a Starbucks is Budapest pondering that I’m waiting for a friend and I don’t even know her phone number, lol.
I’ve just said goodbye to my hubby who is heading back to our small town to pick up our eight yr old daughter from school and take care of the cats and chickens. LOL
I’m staying behind to practice my flamenco singing and participate in a contact dance jam. So excited.
And I was thinking when we said goodbye – and as I sit here at the Starbucks waiting for my friend – how I have no way to get a hold of her at all.
And I must just wait because she has an old flip phone so we can’t use messenger, lol. And I was perfectly OK with that.
And feeling OK with that really surprised me because…
Sitting at a coffee waiting for someone reminded me of the many times I would arrive somewhere and wait for a date when I was dating.
When I was dating, I might get there first and I would LOSE my mind if I didn’t know how to reach the guy.
I would text him to confirm the date early in the week.
The day before..
The day of…
If I was waiting for him in a coffee shop, I would text, “Where are you?! I am waiting at Starbucks since 1 pm like we agreed.”
I used to date men in a very uptight manner. I’d be waiting for their call and if they didn’t call, I’d call them.
When I was waiting for them to confirm a date, I’d call them.
When I arrived first at the place we agreed to meet and they weren’t there, I’d call them.
I wanted to be in control of the relationship at ALL cost.
I wanted to be in charge of how I was going to feel and not at the effect of someone’s mistakes or choices.
I thought I was being empowered.
I thought these were good, healthy boundaries.
I thought I was being responsible.
I thought I was generating the reality that I wanted to experience by being proactive and protecting myself from time wasters.
But I was so misguided….
Because now I can tell you that if you’re doing any of this, that is the very reason you’re still single.
Yesterday I wrote that if you’re single, there is a reason. This is an example of a reason women often feel proud fo dating this way but it’s a BIG mistake.
And no, the alternative isn’t to languish all over the city waiting for willy nilly men.
The alternative is to learn how to pick healthy masculine men looking for a relationship from the very beginning.
Because with THOSE kinds of men, you NEVER have to do ANY of the above.
I NEVER EVER had to do it with my husband.
I learned how to date healthy masculine men which is exactly what will happen for you if you go get my FREE how to pick the right guy checklist here emilianagy.com/rightguy
These are a few example of the actions I’ve seen many other women make when dating, that repel healthy masculine men.
These kinds of behaviors are an ENERGY that attracts effeminate men who want a masculine partner in a woman’s body, narcissistic men who sit back and let you do all the work while they feed on your energy or wounded men who want a mommy.
So how would I be, feel and act differently if I was dating now?
I’d be just like I’m being with my girlfriend. I’d let them do or not do. I’d let them say what they said or not said, I would just watch.
And if they didn’t confirm, or didn’t show up, or didn’t text, or didn’t call – I literally would not sweat – not even out of one single pore – because I know there 1000 more men where that man came from.
Because I learned how to use the online dating platforms for INTRODUCTIONS!!!!
If you’re interested in getting my help with implementing this absolute game-changing approach to soulmate attraction, then I invite you to send me a PM and ask about my 90 day 1-1 intensive.
In that intensive we work together on dating in a fun and nurturing manner while having bad ass boundaries and learning to understand men, the masculine and feminine polarity and how to create sacred union so that the energy in the relationship circulates in a healthy and nourishing manner forever.
You could start laying the groundwork to be waking up next to your dream man in 2024. Its works that well. But you gotta start now. I look forward to reading from you! 🙂