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The Feminine Woman’s of the Most Profound Need

The feminine woman’s most profound need is to surrender to the masculine.

That’s why the primary criteria when filtering for the right men when dating online and offline is masculinity.

If a man isn’t masculine, this is an irreparable problem. You will never “have that spark.”

Without masculinity you won’t have surrender.

You won’t have a romantic connection, you won’t have chemistry, you won’t have what I call a “polarity match” and you will never be truly fulfilled in your relationship.

There will be no energy flow, the relationship will feel “flat.”

Understanding the Essence of Masculine and Feminine Energy

Attraction will be low and you won’t be able to rekindle something that was never actually there.

You may not have the relationship experience to know that this is an irreparable problem.

Or you may be at that place in your life where you’ve dated enough to know that you’ve been encountering this problem but you’re not sure what it was. You just knew things felt “off.”

Or you might have actually married the kind effeminite guy and never felt satisfied.

The solution is to date with masculinity as a primary criteria.

A healthy, kind, gentle, loving, rich, healthy and/or successful man won’t be a fulfilling partner for you if he’s not masculine (and you’re a feminine woman) because you won’t be able to surrender to him.

Many women will try to fix him, “empower him,” help him, caretake him, mother him so that he’ll be masculine enough for you to feel safe surrendering to him.

Some women spend their entire married years doing this.

But you can’t generate that for him because when you try, you contribute to the very problem you’re trying to solve.

You’re trying to dig yourself out of a hole.

The reason why you contribute to the very problem you’re trying to solve by “empowering him” and other such tactics is because you’re mothering him.

And although mothering does have a feminine and nurturing component, mothering is actually masculine energy.

As women, we think we’re helping and we think we’re being a good woman. That’s because society teaches us to give and be sacrificial and small by not speaking up for our needs.

When we see our relationships going wrong, we respond with more mothering, more, “are you ok’s?” more how can I help, more you should ABC etc.

A feminine man will eat that up, he needs this masculine energy and there will be absolutely nothing wrong for you if you’re a masculine energy woman who’d like to provide this kind of mothering.

A masculine man, however, will withdraw.

And that’s actually a good thing.

Transforming Your Approach to Dating and Love

He withdraws because all of this mothering isn’t something he wants in a partner because he doesn’t want to feel like a child.

Where you long to surrender, he longs to experience himself as the capable and powerful hero of your life.

And your caretaking is literally robbing him of the opportunity.

And it’s robbing you of the possibility of what you long for most: surrender.

It’s a good thing he pulls away because, unbeknownst to you, the relationship dynamic has become incestuous.

And if you’re showing up with this kind of energy on first dates by making the plans, picking the place, offering to pay, you will repel masculine men.

If you’ve been on a few dates, and you’re in this kind of energy, he’ll disappear because he won’t know why there’s no attraction or “spark.”

He knows you will ask him, he can’t explain it, so he ghosts.

And if you’ve been in a relationship for a while, he will start questioning himself, he will wonder why he can’t seem to feel like he’s capable of the things he used to feel good about and he will likely pull away to “figure things out.”

Women don’t know how to pick masculine men.

And even a more profound problem, we don’t know how to relate to them.

We are taught to be masculine by our society.

We are valued for our masculine energy.

We are rewarded for being masculine.

Then we try to have a romantic life with the same approach and it just doesn’t work.

We don’t know why, so we just give up on dating and vow to be single with cats.

But what about love? For me, I wasn’t willing to give up on love. Are you? I am so glad I didn’t.

Many women who chose to incarnate in a female body, came here to experience the feminine polarity.

We all are a blend of both masculine and feminine energy but we all prefer to hang out in a certain place on the spectrum.

We came here to BE the feminine energy of God.

We came here to express that, to create that, to experience that, to understand that, to know that.

And we can’t experience ourselves as that profound divine feminine without a transformed relationship to the masculine.

In plain language that means we can’t surrender if we’re not with a masculine man and we either can’t pick masculine men because we don’t know what that even is or we pick feminine men and try to turn them into masculine men (I see this a lot!) and when they don’t shape up, we disavow dating.

The solution is to learn about femininity, masculinity, our differences spiritually, biochemically and behaviorally which are all the things I help you embody.

I honestly believe that you can never have a fulfilling sustainable romantic love without understanding these things.

Understanding these dynamics, which is one of the things we learn and apply in my programs, is a key component to attracting your soulmate.

If you’re currently looking for your man and have been ready for him since forever but somehow you keep attracting the wrong men, I can help you find him in 3 to 6 months and get engaged in 2023.

If you’re ready to meet your soulmate, I invite you to send me a DM and ask about my Engaged in 2023 Program. I created this program for women who want the quickest and easiest transformation to being the woman that attracts her soulmate in 3 to 6 months. It works if you’re currently dating and you’re a feminine woman ready for her masculine man.

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