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This Surprising Shift in Dating Completely Changes the Game for the Feminine: Selecting is not Connecting

When I tell you to multiple date, I don’t mean CONNECT with multiple men!!! 😲😲😲

I don’t mean perform, I don’t mean show up with a lasagna and family photos, I don’t mean be entertaining, be pleasing, or sleep with him.

And I especially don’t mean show up interviewing. 😵

What I mean is more like “PLAY” or “ENJOY” or “BE NURTURED.”

Instead of meeting to “see if you connect,” which is a ton of generative/masculine energy work, you just meet to “practice receiving” and “enjoy masculine energy” and “interplay feminine and masculine energy,” with a male person who you already know will be in his masculine polarity so you won’t have to work so damn hard? 🤔

Yep that’s how my clients attract their soulmate in as few as 3 dates and without draining drama!!!!

And because they dated this way, they attract a man who is emotionally available and sincerely wants to do his part to connect on every level. In other words, a healthy masculine man who is ready for a relationship.

And what if I told you that no, it’s not selfish to “date” this way, because a masculine person embodying his masculine polarity will enjoy being allowed to be the one to generate the CONNECTION.

He will enjoy you allowing his masculine energy to hold you and tickle you LOL. He will cherish interplaying with your feminine energy much more than he would enjoy you doing all the work that we women think we need to do when we date. 😁

Meaning, you’re providing MORE for a man when you’re doing LESS. Like, waaay less. 🤯

I’ve GOT to say that AGAIN.

You’re providing MORE for a man when you’re DOING LESS.

Doing LESS looks like:
-not driving to see him, allowing him to come to you
-not texting him to confirm a date, allowing him to pursue
-not calling him to see how his big thing at work went, allowing him the space to conquer the world and come and tell you about it on HIS time
-not initiating messaging on a dating app but only responding to the men that like you first (on the apps where the woman must respond first, “drop the handkerchief” by swiping right/sending a like/sending a smiley face to men who live in your radius and allow HIM to generate from there)

If you date the way I describe above, you will not feel drained, you will not have drama and you will not hate online dating AND you will attract healthy masculine men.

Men describe their experience of feminine energy like being plugged into the universe. So isn’t that enough?

Yes. You just being in your feminine energy is ENOUGH.


When I say multiple date, I mean, meet a man you’ve vetted as masculine energy and, drum roll, ENJOY being in your feminine energy and feeling into his masculine energy.

That’s it, that’s all the, end.

Meet an average of 1-2 men a week in this low-pressure fun way and you’ll be on your way to being engaged before the end of 2024.

That’s how my clients meet their divine masculine man in an average of 3-6 months – some in as soon as 6 weeks of going online to dating sites.

That’s all multiple dating is. And now I call it ABUNDANCE dating. Because that’s what it is.

A client of mine is in her late 50s and within just 2 weeks of going online we had over 80 matches for her. She has her first date already scheduled with a man who is driving to HER.

This is ABUNDANCE dating.

These are some of the simple shifts I implement with my clients in my 1-1 intensive to collapse time to love.

This is how my clients easily and effortlessly attract the right partner in an average of only 3 months at a rate of 1-2 dates per week!!

If you’re ready to collapse time and quantum leap to love, then consider joining my Everything Dating Group Program starting March 21st which is 8 weeks of support just like this for 8 women and it’s $888.

Send me a DM and we will have a quick chat over messenger to feel into if it’s the right fit for you and if so, you can grab a spot and you can start having my unlimited messenger/voxer/whatsapp support ASAP.

Emilia 🔮

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