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Why Being “the best version” of Yourself Doesn’t Equal Success in Love

To attract real lasting love (which is long-lasting and deeply connected when there is a sacred partnership between divine feminine and divine masculine energy in a couple), it’s not enough to “be the best version of yourself.”

No. Sorry.

You need skills, knowledge and understanding, EVEN IF you’re the best version of yourself.

You need to understand men.

You need to understand the masculine.

You need to understand how to STAY in your POWER in relation to the masculine energy.
Otherwise you won’t be able to create long-lasting deep love.

That’s because healthy masculine men RESPOND to women.

Healthy masculine men want to lead, provide for and protect their partner.

And if you’re not in your power to KNOW and COMMUNICATE what it is that you need and want, he CAN’T provide it. Then there’s no giving and receiving flow.

No sacred partnership.

This is amazing incredible news because that means that sacred partnership is possible just with YOUR actions alone – AS LONG AS you’re with a HEALTHY Masculine man.

Healthy masculine men protect children, women and the elderly. A healthy man won’t ever want to make a woman uncomfortable, unhappy or unwell.

It doesn’t take two to Tango when you’re dancing in the synergy of sacred union.

I know, isn’t that crazy?

So counter intuitive but if you’ve been keeping up with my posts you know that sacred partnership busts so many myths about love and it’s truly the foundation of New Earth 5D love.

I am speaking from my experience being in a sacred partnership love marriage and some other sacred partnerships like business and friends as well and those of my clients.

Let me break it down even further.

Imagine a relationship between two people as represented by a line joining two points.

You are one of the points and your partner is the other. The line is the relationship.

And imagine this line exists in a 3-dimensional space. Like those graphs we did in high school calculus.

If you move one point, either up, down or further away from the other point, or closer to the other point…. What does that do to the LINE?
The line MOVES.

It either stretches, shortens, or changes its location in 3-dimensional space, depending on how the points move.

So if you move YOUR point, the whole LINE moves.

When I talk about space, I am referring to the 3-dimensional math grid we used in math class LOL, but also it very much applies to your INNER space. But that’s the topic of another post.

So no. It doesn’t take two to tango.

In a sacred partnership, it takes ONE.

That’s because each ONE is sovereign and IN their power (rather than giving away their power which is how we’re currently taught to do partnership) being fully willing to be responsible for their actions, how they show up and how that affects the relationship.

You have the power to create the relationship you most desire.

YOU have the power to influence healthy men to provide the things you most long for.

You have the power to bring your dreams in love to reality.

You have the power to bring out the best in men.

(You also have the power to bring out the BEAST.

And ooh boy does the mainstream secular narrative teach us women EXCACTLY how; so that the gender wars are kept raging, the wounds of war kept bleeding.

BEAST or BEST, you choose by where you place yourself in space and which RESPONSE you cause in a man.

Sacred union love is a rebellious act.

Because sacred union heals you and everyone that is in your field including Mother Gaia. Somebody doesn’t want you that powerful. I wonder who, I wonder why.


Now there is a key caveat that I MUST be very clear about and that is this: THIS ONLY WORKS IF you’ve first selected a healthy masculine man.
If you’re not with a healthy masculine man or you’re with an effeminate man, you won’t experience this.

When I was first learning these energy dynamics of masculine and feminine, I tested out this responding idea on many of the men in my life. I noticed that healthy masculine men always responded to try and provide what they thought was my comfort and happiness. Unhealthy men didn’t.

They fought me on my boundaries

.I noticed that effeminate men in general didn’t pay attention the same way.
One dear gay guy friend got frustrated and was like, “I don’t like the ball is in my court feeling.” LOL exactly!!!!!

But a masculine man WANTS to have the ball in his court, this is how you let him lead, this is how you allow him to respond to you. A healthy masculine man will never hit the ball to intentionally hurt you because he protects you.

An unhealthy man MAY hit the ball to hurt you. An effeminate man won’t want to hit the ball, LOL, he will want you to take charge.

We are at the dawn of a new age and what’s possible between men and women hasn’t really been possible for several generations back (I think it was possible before that, as in the times of Atlantis, Lemuria and Temple Priestess Matriarchies).

The galactic and energetic codes for sacred union are coming into our atmosphere and cosmic weather and there are SO MANY that are ready for NEW EARTH LOVE.

And if you’ve got LOVE on your radar for 2022, I invite you to send me a message and ask about my private 90 day intensive because that usually makes it happen in just 3-6 months!

That container is an end-to-end journey for dating intentionally so you can meet high quality, healthy masculine men, learning to understand men NOT the way cultural norms depict but the way that they REALLY ARE (which is a compatible and divine counterpart to women).

We also deepen your personal sacred practices by learning to understand yourself as a feminine powerhouse who GETS to have the support and care of a masculine man and understanding how to partner powerfully for forever love.

Our work together is a combination of deep energy and reiki healing, generational healing of your female lineage, your complete love blueprint repatterning and sacred union love activation.

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