The main reason why many dating and relationship coaching programs, including those focusing on 5D love, often fall short in delivering real, lasting results is their over-reliance on superficial tactics that simply don’t have staying power.
It’s like trying to build a house on a shaky foundation – it might look good at first, but it won’t withstand the test of time.
Another common issue is that I see programs tend to fixate on just one piece of the complex puzzle that is a sustainable, passionate partnership such as polarity or communication, or healing or addressing relationship blueprints from family of origin which we just recreate until we consciously CHOOSE.
They miss the forest for the trees, so to speak.
And the reason for this oversight is quite simple: not everyone out there knows all the pieces that make up the relationship puzzle.
I’ve noticed that some of these so-called relationship experts aren’t exactly experts when it comes to %love.
They’re still navigating the dating scene themselves, and it’s evident that their own strategies haven’t worked for them.
The Need for Understanding
It’s like taking financial advice from someone who’s perpetually in debt – it just doesn’t add up.
Furthermore, some of these approaches lack the depth required to help women break free from their relationship patterns and step into their true potential as the divine feminine counterpart in a sacred union or marriage.
For instance, I’ve come across a woman who’s been living with a man for the past six months but isn’t married herself, yet she’s teaching about sacred union.
Another woman is still dating without any commitment and is teaching about dating and attachment theory, which, let’s face it, is just a theory.
But isn’t the whole point of dating to meet your dream partner and build a meaningful connection?
Who wants to learn about dating just for the sake of dating?
Now, don’t get me wrong – these women may have valuable insights to offer.
But let’s draw a parallel with other professions.
Doctors have to go through rigorous medical exams, and lawyers take the bar exam to prove their competence.
There are standards for proficiency and professional expertise in these fields.
That’s why I have a deep appreciation for experts like Alison Armstrong, Helena Hart, Natalia Maura, Namaste Moore, Polina Solda, Cyndi Olin, Alana McKenzie Page, Buffy Bliss, Claudia Philips, Dr. Diana Kirshner, Helena Summer, and Marie Cherilien.
These women are not only in long-term, successful marriages; some of them also have kids.
They’re living proof that they understand the complexities of nurturing a lasting relationship.
So, when it comes to seeking guidance in your pursuit of a sacred, enduring partnership, you have a pool of experts to choose from.
My sincere advice is not to seek wisdom from those who are unqualified or lack the firsthand experience.
Now, let’s delve into the core pieces that every woman should grasp when navigating the path of lasting 5D love in search of a sacred partnership.
These pieces are like the foundation of a strong and enduring relationship.
The first piece of the puzzle is understanding your own core energy.
Are you primarily a feminine or masculine core woman?
Both exist, but feminine core individuals in female bodies are most common.
It’s crucial to distinguish this from the MODE in which you spend most of your day.
Many women have a deep feminine CORE but find themselves in a predominantly masculine MODE due to the demands of their work.
Why is this important? Well, if you’re a feminine core woman spending most of your day in a masculine mode at work, you might clash with a masculine man when you meet one.
Understanding this dynamic is key to building a harmonious partnership.
You can’t solve this puzzle without delving into the nuances of feminine and masculine energetics.
Here’s something many love experts don’t emphasize enough: you need an authentic energy flow that flows from masculine to feminine and back to masculine for a healthy and fulfilling sacred partnership.
This can’t be faked.
It must be intentionally created and sincerely nourished.
I’ve seen this concept taught in the context of Tantra and sacred sexuality, but it’s rarely discussed as the source of sustainability in marriage.
So, that’s the first piece – understanding your core energy and the energy flow.
The second piece of the puzzle is gaining a profound understanding of the differences between men and women.
It’s not just about how they think or how they use language; it’s about their behaviors and what those behaviors mean within the context of relationships.
Why is this crucial? Because we live in human bodies, and these differences are woven into the fabric of our existence.
Integrating this knowledge into your interactions with men, especially in a romantic context, can be a game changer.
It’s like having a secret decoder for understanding and connecting with the opposite sex.
Now, onto the third and equally vital piece – healing.
You need a transformational healing process that shifts your frequency, making you open to the gifts of men and the divine masculine.
It’s about shedding the default self-protective mode ingrained by society and culture.
This insight enables you to communicate and connect effectively within your marriage.
When you combine these three pieces – understanding your core energy, comprehending the dynamics between men and women, and undergoing transformative healing – you’ll possess the essential components for a fulfilling and enduring marriage.
It’s worth noting that those who lack personal experience in maintaining a lasting marriage simply can’t provide this level of insight and guidance.
Of course, practical aspects like financial literacy and shared values about family structure are important too.
But even couples who have these aspects sorted out can find themselves struggling down the road if they haven’t addressed the core 3 components I mentioned earlier.
And when you add children to the mix, everything shifts profoundly.
Surprisingly, there are very few coaches out there who address the intricacies of sacred partnership, New Earth 5D Love, and family dynamics. I happen to be one of them.
Consider this analogy: Would you learn how to become a millionaire from someone who just makes $10,000 a month but hasn’t reached the million-dollar mark?
Probably not.
Or would you hire someone who recently made their first million but lacks the knowledge to sustain it? It might sound enticing, but sustainability matters.
In the same vein, would you hire a coach with a million-dollar business if they’re constantly sacrificing family time and self-care to maintain it? Again, sustainability matters, not just financial success.
We’re entering a new age, and we need new skills and tools for love.
Guiding Principles for Navigating 5D Love
The conversation around relationships, including 5D Love, needs to evolve, and we must discern between those who offer real, sustainable solutions and those who peddle short-term strategies that ultimately don’t align with our awakening and expanding consciousness.
The tools I offer are rooted in New Earth 5D Love, and they may not be for everyone.
They resonate with healers, starseeds, empaths, visionaries, generational cycle breakers, creatives, dreamers, and new-wave feminine leaders.
These tools are designed for those who are here to redefine relationships as part of their spiritual mission and usher in a new era of 5D Love.
If you’re ready to explore the realm of 5D Love, I invite you to follow along with my posts and if you want personal help, jsut send me a DM and ask about my 90-intensive where we teach, integrate and implement ALL I wrote abou there.