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Why You Shouldn’t Date a 50/50 Man: The Importance of Masculine Energy in Relationships

Why You Shouldn’t Date a 50/50 Man

If your man asks you to pay on a date, he’s not in his healthy masculine energy. He’s telling you he’s not ready to be a provider. And that’s OK! Next!

The Problem with 50/50 Relationships

Women often say, “I got my own bag. I don’t need a provider. I just want love.” But try that when you’re 1 week postpartum, your newborn is screaming for your boob around the clock, and your man wants your 50% of the rent bill that month. NO NO NO NEVER. Don’t do it. Don’t date a 50/50 man.

Date a Provider, a Protector

Date a man who cherishes the feminine as the portal to the Divine that she is. If you want to know how to attract those, send me a DM and ask me about it. I teach that in my 90-day 1-1 intensive where you date, heal, and partner for divine union.

The Value of Masculinity in a Relationship

A man who has his masculinity intact is capable of creating the 3D resources he needs and he’s gladly willing to share them with his feminine partner. When my husband and I met, he was making $15 an hour, and I owned a home in San Diego. My biz was at 6 figures. But he still never let me pay a single bill and never let me feel like I should. And I never looked down on him because at that time he made less money than me. I looked beyond his circumstances at the time to his character and his qualities and just a couple of years later, his own company was making 6 figures.

The Importance of Receiving

You’re an empathic heart. You’re a sensitive high-achieving conscientious soul who will give and give because it’s your nature to be generous, love, and care for others. You are going to give SO MUCH to your partnership. If you don’t implement “no 50/50 from the start,” you will over-give, and start feeling drained and resentful. And that’s not divine union. That’s why making sure a man is proud to take care of you is the most basic requirement I ask you to implement in your dating journey. If you don’t know how, it’s Ok, I teach you.

The Blueprint for Organic, Soulful, Fulfilling Love

The blueprint for organic, soulful, fulfilling love is already there, inside of you! And we can access it! It’s just been obscured and tarnished by social messages and false constructs on purpose. Why? For the same reason we don’t learn about financial empowerment and how to really take care of our health in school. Divine union is balanced and in equilibrium. There is an energy flow and a harmony and a PEACE. Both partners are giving and receiving but the giving must be allowed to originate with the masculine and be received and then reciprocated by the feminine.

Reclaim the Blueprint for Divine Union

Reclaim it by receiving with gracious acknowledgment and bountiful appreciation. I see you, the way they see in Avatar, and I know this is what you need. It’s just the result of working with 100s and 1000s of women who are also going through this as the Divine Feminine rises. But she doesn’t rise alone, she rises with the Divine masculine making a way for her, protecting, supporting, and strengthening her. He is needed for her sacred work, don’t ever let a masculine man think that you don’t need him. If you want to create in this world in alignment with your feminine gifts, having a masculine partner who has GOT you only multiplies that. Then you don’t have to rely on your own masculine. You’ve got a partner.

Join My 90-Day 1-1 Intensive

If you’re not sure how to do that, send me a DM. These are all the things I help you heal and overcome in your relationships with the masculine in my 90-day 1-1 intensive. Reclaim the blueprint for divine union and prosper in love. I will respond with a few questions to see if we’re a fit to work together and if so, we can get started right away.

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