“Attracting Healthy Masculine Love: The Power of Receiving and Reciprocating in Relationships”
Yes, a healthy masculine man can handle your frequency. He wants you in your power. He doesn’t want you to sacrifice. He doesn’t want you compromising, and he doesn’t want you settling or playing small. He wants to give you what will make you HAPPY.
Like really, really HAPPY. Not just a little happy. Not the dress on sale because the new season dress is over-the-top expensive. Not “let’s compromise on the vacation you really want to take because I don’t feel like driving that far.” Not “if you only didn’t desire so much, our relationship would work out.” (red flag!). NO.
A healthy masculine man can and WILL give you EVERYTHING.
So then what does that require of you in return?
NOTHING in the way most women think.
You don’t have to cook or clean the house, have sex with him whenever he asks or take care of his grandma. Although if you wanted to, why not? ?
You just need to RECEIVE.
And if you’re genuinely receiving, then you will naturally APPRECIATE.
And if you’re genuinely appreciating, you will feel GRAREFUL.
And if you’re feeling GRATEFUL, you will GLOW.
And if you GLOW, you will be in your feminine radiance.
That feminine radiance, that receptivity and softness, is what nourishes YOU and HIM.
There are two amazing love experts I interviewed in the Sacred Partnership Summit – Courtney Fae Long and Wendy Newman and we discussed this precisely and how you can create this! Check it out free here www.sacredpartnershipsummit.com
There is an energy flow and energy exchange in a healthy thriving relationship that nourishes both partners and ignites and sustains the fire of forever.
And that flow is GENERATED with the masculine. It FLOWS to the feminine. The feminine RECIEVES his gifts. Then she RECIPROCATES and the energy flows back to the masculine.
But here’s the KEY…
You simply RECEIVING is the first step.
If you go to reciprocating WITHOUT receiving, you will not be able to sustain the energy flow of sacred union.
The thing you reciprocate with, doesn’t have to be A LOT.
It also doesn’t have to be EQUAL in VALUE (that’s called compensation).
In fact, please don’t make it equal. Also don’t make it MORE because then that would put you in the generating or masculine energy and force him into the receiving or feminine energy and that energy won’t feel nourishing or sustainable to either of you if you’re a feminine woman and he’s a masculine man.
It just has to be RECEIVED.
That’s the GIFT you give HIM.
And if you decide to reciprocate in some way AFTER you’ve received his gift, let it be genuine.
Here’s an example. Let’s say you’re dating a new man and he’s taken you out on several dates and paid.
To avoid awkwardness in the beginning, you can always say, “do you need any help with that,” when the bill comes – this is Wendy Newman’s great advice!
If he’s a healthy masculine man he will say no. He’s not going to do 50/50. Masculine men want to be providers.
But now that it’s been a few dates and you’ve been graciously receiving his gifts, you feel a welling up of appreciation and desire in your heart to appreciate him in some way. RIGHT?
So here’s an idea: Bake him cookies and give them to him on your next date.
He will feel cared for and appreciated and it will touch him so deeply in his heart and inspire him want to provide even more of the things that really make you happy.
This is what I mean by receiving and then reciprocating.
Let me know if you have any questions. SO often I am trying to describe these energetic principles in words and I often wonder if it comes out in the written word the way I understand it in my head, lol. I’d love to know if this post made sense for you. You can let me know in the comments. Also come listen to other experts discuss these important dynamics in the Sacred Partnership Summit in THEIR words. Register free here www.sacredpartnershipsummit.com
If you’d like help attracting a healthy masculine man and creating a nourishing and sustainable HOT connection on every level, then I that’s ALL we talked about on the Sacred Partnership Summit, so join us!
In the summit we discuss EV.ER.Y.THING on dating smart and sorting through men for healthy masculine men that are ready for a deep connection with a feminine woman like you.
We talk about the kinds of healing you need ro do to create space for that in your life because as you start to date men that are very different from the kind of men you’ve likely been dating before, it WILL bring up worthiness issues and past wounds but that’s so great because it’s going to clear out all the things that block sacred union!
Can’t wait to have you join us we go live VDAY!!!!!